Hi, I’m Rich Tabor

  • The Paralympics 2024

    I paid close attention to the Paralympics 2024, turning onto the livestream when I could, and honestly, I’m in awe. Every time I tuned into these games, I was reminded just how extraordinary the human spirit can be. It’s more than just a sporting event—it’s a masterclass in perseverance, talent, and grit.

    The athletes are absolutely phenomenal. The way they push their limits in every event is nothing short of inspiring. Whether it was a sprinter zooming past the finish line, a swimmer slicing through the water, or a powerlifter hoisting unbelievable weights—every single performance left me speechless.

    Of course, the winners deserve huge applause. Their accomplishments on the global stage are remarkable, and the way they shattered records and reached new heights is inspiring for all of us. But honestly, what moves me the most isn’t just the medal tally. It’s the journey every athlete has taken to get there. Some of these stories make you stop and think about how much we take for granted, and how much is possible when you refuse to give up.

    The Paralympics isn’t just about winning—it’s about courage. Watching these athletes compete makes you realize that life’s challenges can be met head-on, no matter how tough. Every single participant has pushed through their own struggles, and for many, just getting to the games was a victory in itself.

    These athletes have redefined what it means to be strong, to persist, and to achieve. They’ve shown the world that true greatness isn’t just about physical ability but about heart, passion, and determination. I’m beyond grateful for their example—and I can’t wait to carry some of that spirit into my own life.

  • This is the year of the iPhone 16

    This year, I’m probably going to buy the iPhone 16, and I’ve decided to resist the urge to switch to Android. As someone who’s had an iPhone 12 for a while now, this upgrade is going to be pretty substantial — faster processor, better camera, and all those fancy new features. But here’s the thing: as a new parent, now’s not the time to be fiddling with a new platform and OS, no matter how exciting it has been promising.

    I know Android has a lot to offer, but honestly, the iPhone has served me well over the years. I’ve got my photos, messages, apps, and everything synced perfectly in iCloud. It just works. Plus, when time is at a premium (diaper changes and baby feeding don’t leave much room for tech experiments), sticking with what I know makes the most sense.

    So, while the Android switch is tempting, this year, I’m playing it safe and sticking with Apple. It’s reliable, and for now, that’s exactly what I need.

  • Movie Theater Popcorn Prices

    Ever wonder why that bucket of popcorn at the movies costs as much as a nice lunch? You’re not alone. I’ve found myself pondering this cinematic mystery more times than I care to admit.

    Let’s break it down: The actual cost of the popcorn, oil, and bag is probably less than a dollar. So why are we shelling out $8 or more for this salty snack?

    There are a few theories:

    1. Captive audience: Once you’re in the theater, where else are you going to get your snack fix?
    2. Profit margins: Theaters make a slim profit on ticket sales, so concessions are where they rake in the dough.
    3. Psychology: That $15 combo suddenly doesn’t look so bad next to the $12 popcorn, does it?
    4. Atmosphere: Part of the moviegoing experience is the smell and taste of that theater popcorn. We’re paying for the tradition.

    Whatever the reason, it seems like sky-high popcorn prices are here to stay. So next time you’re at the movies, maybe consider smuggling in some microwave popcorn. Or just bite the bullet and enjoy your overpriced but oh-so-satisfying movie snack. No judgment here!

    What do you think? Is movie theater popcorn worth the splurge, or do you have your own sneaky snack strategies?

  • The Lost Art of Letter Writing

    In our fast-paced digital world, the art of letter writing has largely fallen by the wayside. We fire off texts and emails without a second thought, but when was the last time you sat down with pen and paper to compose a heartfelt letter to a loved one?

    There’s something uniquely special about handwritten letters. The feel of quality stationery, the flow of ink across the page, carefully choosing each word – it’s a sensory and emotional experience that digital communication can’t replicate. A physical letter is a tangible artifact, something to be treasured and revisited over the years.

    Letter writing also forces us to slow down and be more thoughtful in our communication. There’s no backspace key when writing by hand. We have to consider our words more carefully, resulting in more meaningful exchanges. And that occasional error that you do run into has to be scribbled off, creating highlights on the letter.

    I recently happened to watch a play about writing letters between two friends, and it has really lit a light inside me. So I’ve recently started writing letters again, sending them to far-flung friends and family members. The responses I’ve received, though not in letter form, have been touching. Many have commented on how special it felt to receive a “real” letter in the mail amidst the usual bills and junk.

    In our hyperconnected era, there’s something wonderfully intimate and almost radical about communicating through handwritten letters.

  • Mumbai Monsoon Madness: A Watery Tale of Woe and Wonder

    Facade of the Asiatic Society of Mumbai Building, Mumbai, India
    Photo by Keith Lobo on Pexels

    Ah, Mumbai rains! That magical time of year when the city transforms into a giant water park, complete with impromptu swimming pools on every street corner. It’s the season when Mumbaikars collectively decide to embrace their inner fish and perfect their freestyle strokes on the daily commute. Welcome to the annual aquatic adventure that is the Mumbai monsoon!

    Picture this: You wake up to the gentle pitter-patter of raindrops on your window. “How lovely,” you think, still cozy in your bed. But as you step outside, you realize that “gentle pitter-patter” was actually Mother Nature’s way of saying, “Surprise! I’ve turned your neighborhood into Venice!” Suddenly, your morning commute feels less like a trip to the office and more like an audition for “Waterworld: Mumbai Edition.”

    Now, I’m no expert, but I’m pretty sure the local BMC (Brihanmumbai Municipal Corporation) wasn’t aiming for an Italian aesthetic when they designed our drainage system. Yet here we are, gondolas optional, as we navigate the newly formed canals that were once our roads. It’s like the city planners looked at Venice and thought, “Challenge accepted!”

    Speaking of roads, let’s take a moment to appreciate the BMC’s innovative approach to urban planning. Who needs smooth, pothole-free surfaces when you can have an exciting obstacle course instead? It’s like they’ve thoughtfully scattered miniature swimming pools all over the city. How considerate of them to ensure we never run out of places to take a refreshing dip!

    But wait, there’s more! The BMC, in its infinite wisdom, has also gifted us with the world’s largest game of “The Floor is Lava.” Except in Mumbai, it’s more like “The Floor is a Raging River.” Watch as otherwise dignified office-goers hop from one slightly elevated patch of concrete to another, briefcases held high above their heads like trophies. It’s a sight to behold, I tell you! Who needs a gym membership when your daily commute involves parkour, swimming, and extreme balancing acts?

    Now, let’s talk about the infrastructure, or should I say, the lack thereof. Mumbai, the financial capital of India, the city of dreams, where skyscrapers touch the clouds and ambitions soar even higher. Yet, somehow, we haven’t quite mastered the art of letting water flow downhill. It’s almost as if the city planners looked at the basic laws of physics and said, “Nah, we’ll pass.”

    Every monsoon, we witness the same drama unfold. The first heavy shower hits, and suddenly, the city that never sleeps decides to take an impromptu nap. Trains screech to a halt, traffic comes to a standstill, and the only thing moving faster than the rising water levels is the speed at which Mumbaikars tweet about it. It’s as if the entire city collectively decides to play a game of “Who can spot the most creative flood photo?” Bonus points if you capture a car floating down what used to be a main road!

    But fear not! For in these trying times, the true spirit of Mumbai shines through. Where else would you see a group of strangers form a human chain to help people cross a flooded street? Or watch as local shopkeepers turn their stores into makeshift shelters, offering chai and vada pav to stranded commuters? It’s heartwarming, really. Nothing brings people together quite like the shared experience of being knee-deep in muddy water. It’s like a team-building exercise, but instead of trust falls, we’re doing trust floats.

    And let’s not forget the fashion opportunities that Mumbai rains bring! Gone are the days of boring raincoats and umbrellas. Now, it’s all about styling your gumboots with your office wear. Nothing says “I’m ready for that presentation” quite like a pair of bright yellow rain boots peeking out from under your crisp trousers. It’s high fashion meets high tide, and we’re here for it! Who needs Paris Fashion Week when you’ve got Mumbai Monsoon Couture?

    Of course, no discussion of Mumbai rains would be complete without mentioning the traffic. Ah, Mumbai traffic – a phenomenon that defies logic even on the best of days. But add a little rain to the mix, and you’ve got yourself a situation that would make even the most patient saint lose their cool. Suddenly, that 30-minute commute turns into a 3-hour aquatic adventure. But look on the bright side – you now have ample time to catch up on that podcast backlog or perhaps learn a new language. By the time you reach your destination, you might be fluent in Mandarin! Or better yet, you might have evolved gills. Evolution works fast in Mumbai monsoons, I tell you.

    Now, I know what you’re thinking. “Surely, after years of dealing with the same issues, the city must have come up with some solutions?” Oh, you sweet summer child. The BMC’s approach to flood management is about as effective as using a teaspoon to empty the Arabian Sea. Every year, we hear grand plans of cleaning storm drains, improving sewage systems, and creating flood-resistant infrastructure. And every year, we find ourselves wading through waist-deep water, wondering if those plans were written on paper boats and set sail in the very floods they were meant to prevent.

    But let’s be fair. Mumbai isn’t just a city; it’s an emotion. It’s the place where dreams come to swim… er, I mean, soar. It’s a city that takes a licking and keeps on ticking. Where else would you find people so resilient that they treat a flooded local train compartment as just another Monday? Or see office-goers treating their daily commute like an extreme sport, complete with impromptu rafting sessions? It’s as if the entire population has collectively decided to audition for a Bollywood version of “Waterworld.”

    Speaking of Bollywood, the Mumbai rains have starred in more dramatic scenes than most actors. Picture this: Our hero and heroine, separated by fate and poor urban planning, finally reunite on a flooded street. As they run towards each other in slow motion, water splashing dramatically with each step, you can almost hear the violins swelling in the background. It’s romance, Mumbai ishtyle!

    But it’s not just about the drama. The Mumbai monsoon also brings out the philosopher in everyone. Suddenly, every auto-rickshaw driver becomes a poet, waxing lyrical about the beauty of the rain as they navigate through knee-deep water. Every chai-wallah turns into a weatherman, predicting the intensity of the next downpour based on the consistency of the tea leaves. It’s like the whole city turns into a live-action weather channel, but with more vada pav.

    In all seriousness, though, the Mumbai monsoon situation is a perfect storm (pun intended) of poor urban planning, inadequate infrastructure, and climate change. The city’s storm water drainage system, designed by the British in the 1860s, is woefully inadequate for the current population and rainfall patterns. It’s like trying to drain an Olympic-sized swimming pool with a drinking straw. Add to that the uncontrolled construction, destruction of mangroves, and concretization of natural water bodies, and you have a recipe for disaster. Or as we call it in Mumbai, “July.”

    The rapid urbanization of Mumbai has led to a concrete jungle that would make even Mowgli feel out of place. Natural flood barriers like mangroves have been cleared faster than you can say “environmental disaster,” replaced by high-rises that seem to have a love-hate relationship with gravity. It’s as if the city planners looked at the concept of sustainable development and decided it was more of a guideline than a rule.

    Yet, despite all its flaws, Mumbai has a charm that’s hard to resist. It’s a city that teaches you to dance in the rain when you can’t stop the downpour. It’s a place where the human spirit rises higher than the flood waters, where strangers become friends in the face of adversity, and where a plate of hot vada pav can make even the gloomiest, rainiest day feel a little brighter. It’s a city where “sink or swim” isn’t just a saying, it’s a daily reality.

    But I have to admit, after years of playing this annual game of “Will my living room become an aquarium this monsoon?”, I’m starting to consider my options. And by options, I mean looking at other cities in Maharashtra that don’t turn into water worlds every June. Cities where “waterfront property” isn’t a term that applies to every ground floor flat come monsoon season.

    Which brings me to Nashik. Ah, Nashik! The land of grapes, temples, and most importantly, functional drainage systems. A city where rain is a blessing, not a citywide emergency. Where the roads don’t disappear under water faster than my motivation on a Monday morning. A place where I can enjoy the pitter-patter of raindrops without wondering if I need to start building an ark.

    In Nashik, I imagine, people actually look forward to the monsoon. They probably have quaint concepts like “rainwater harvesting” and “flood prevention.” The idea of using an inflatable boat to get to work probably seems absurd to them. How charmingly old-fashioned!

    So, as I sit here, watching the rain turn my street into a tributary of the Mithi River, I can’t help but dream of Nashik. Of dry feet and unsaturated furniture. Of monsoons that bring joy, not traffic jams. Of a life where I don’t need to check the weather forecast before deciding what shoes to wear to work.

    But who knows? Maybe next year, Mumbai will surprise us all. Maybe the BMC will finally crack the code of gravity-defying water management. Maybe pigs will fly and fish will walk. Until then, I’ll be here, perfecting my backstroke and seriously considering investing in a personal submarine. After all, that’s the Mumbai spirit – always ready to dive in, come rain or… well, more rain!

    In the end, Mumbai during monsoon is like that friend who’s a bit of a mess but you love them anyway. It’s chaotic, it’s frustrating, it’s occasionally terrifying, but it’s never, ever boring. It’s a city that teaches you to find joy in the little things – like finding a relatively dry patch of sidewalk, or successfully jumping over a puddle without soaking your shoes.

    So here’s to you, Mumbai. You may drive us crazy, you may soak us to the bone, but you’ll always have a special place in our hearts. Just maybe, next time, could you work on having a special place for all that rainwater too? Pretty please? With a vada pav on top?​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

  • The Right Foot Forward: My Wife’s Quirky Quest for Luck

    Ever noticed someone doing a little dance before exiting a room? No, it’s not the latest TikTok trend – it’s just my wife ensuring she steps out with her right foot first. Yes, you heard that right (pun intended)!

    This peculiar superstition has turned our home into a comedic ballet studio. Picture this: she’s halfway through the doorway, realizes it’s the wrong foot, and moonwalks back in to start over. It’s like watching a human screensaver in action.

    Our friends now place bets on how many attempts it’ll take her to leave a party. And don’t get me started on revolving doors – they’re her kryptonite. She once spent so long trying to time her exit that security thought she was casing the joint.

    But hey, who am I to judge? If it keeps bad luck at bay and provides free entertainment, I’m all for it. Plus, it’s a great excuse when we’re running late: “Sorry, honey, I left the bedroom with my left foot. Had to go back and do it again… five times.”

    So, if you see someone doing the hokey-pokey at every threshold, don’t worry. It’s probably just my wife, keeping the universe in balance, one right step at a time.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

  • Expanding My Culinary Horizons: A Month of Mumbai Dining Adventures

    I recently travelled to Mumbai for some business and had to spend a little over four months there. I spent most of the days at the vendor’s office in the mornings, which meant I had the rest of the day to myself starting at lunch time. If you know anything about Mumbai, you’d know that spending any amount of time alone in a hotel room quickly gets boring, because there’s so much to do around the city and its streets. I had an idea, and it seemed interesting at that time, so I went ahead with it.

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